Bus tarts, read you! =P

U know what? I'm just pondering and tadaa suddenly its like a lightbulb pop out moment.

I realize that :

When you share your feelings of frustration(of other people) with a person other than the people you're frustrated with, you are ;

-BITCHING

-stabbing their backs

-bad-mouthing them

-gossiping

-complaining

-a hypocrite

BUT, if you share your frustation with your blog/dog/god/whatever rocks your socks that cannot speak to human, you are merely ;

-letting out your frustration

-sharing your feelings

-destress wtf

The unfairness. Isn't it the same? 

No it isn't. 

Because if you blog or speak to your dog about it, they won't tell no one. Ok maybe a blog does. But it isn't the same because if you blog, the the frustrater get to read it by himself/herself firsthand then they won't lose their pride. 

BUT, if you share your frustration with another person, then they will get to know the news from others, and this also means that soooooo many other people have heard about it before reaching the frustrater himself/herself. 

Thus, it will make the frustrater lose face. Thus the frustrater is now frustrated with you, the frustratee. Thus he/she will not like you anymore. Thus he/she will think that you are a HYPPOPOTAMMUS. 

No, seriously, I meant to say H.Y.P.P.O.c.r.i.t.e.

Well depends on how you see it. It can be "sharing of feelings" or plain bitching. Because some people cannot accept defeat at any degree, we cannot just say things up to their face don't you think. 

Especially if they're your friends but not exactly close ones(so you cannot just go up to them and say "FUCK YOU" right? but if you do that then I'm your biggest fan and i salute you.What?I'm coward like that I know!). 

U cannot just leave it in his/her face like that what. It's like you can tolerate, but the frustrater suddenly do/say things which really stings, you need to let out. If you confront the frustrater right there and then, for sure there'll be no happy ending. So, why not just sabar for as long as u can then things will just be the same. 

My point is, it's not worth(if you feel that it's not worth it,then it's not worth it) to ruin a friendship in order to defend yourself. Your friend might have been a real bitch a times but sure there are good times as well. 

So in order to save the frienship, you just sabar. But one day when you really need to let out, then you voice to your other friend about what you feel. Is that bitching? Is that back-stabbing, when in fact what you say did happen? Is that gossiping when you're merely sharing your feelings with someone close to you?

LOL. Gimme your opinions, people who read this. I need :D

p/s : This post doesn't refer to anyone in particular hor. It's just one of my many "clever and opinionated" moments hor. Hahaha

I dont understand what I write after all. It's just messy ^o^